Charity... and your neighbour part 2

So, like I wrote about on Monday, we are to have 1 Corinthians 13 "charity" towards our "neighbour" (see Luke 10 to define "neighbour") in order to fulfill the Second Great Commandment.

Continuing that thought, 1 Corinthians 13:4 says, "Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,"

Applying these to our neighbours, we ought to be long suffering and patient towards them. If they have a bad habit that we don't like - we should probably just get over it. Why do ye not rather take wrong? Why do ye not rather suffer yourselves to be defrauded? To be obedient to the 2nd Great Commandment, we should be willing to love even in the midst of whatever nuisance our neighbour may provide to us.

We are to be kind. Forgiving one another as Christ forgave us, being tenderhearted, that is how Eph. 4:32 defines it for us.

Charity envieth not. I was thinking that 'coveting' is when we want something that we don't have, and we let it change our attitude because we don't have it. It's ok to want something, but when that want changes your attitude, it has become lust / covetousness. Envy on the other hand is: after you have coveted something that somebody else has, not only are you sad that you don't have it, but you actually turn and develop a negative attitude towards the person that does have it. If we could just be content with what we do have, we would not covet and in turn be envious towards others. Be content with what you have. And what do you have? Jesus promised that HE would never leave you nor forsake you. Are you content with Jesus, or do you need more? Charity envieth not.

Charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up. When you have love for someone else, you will exalt that person instead of yourself. In lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves. Jesus loved us, and He was willing to humble Himself... Besides, you know what happens when you boast on yourself and give yourserlf glory? Well, if you're not struck dead like Herod in Acts 12, Proverbs tells us that for men to search out their own glory, it is not glory. When we boast on ourselves, we actually are making what perhaps we would have deserved credit for - unpraiseworthy.

Anyway, just a couple more thoughts on having charity towards your neighbour. Another way to love your neighbour would be to watch your tongue.